Everyone likes to think of themselves as an upstanding person, one who would never break a vow or betray someone they love. Each individual who has ever been in my office to deal with infidelity has always prefaced it by saying, “I’m a good person, but…”
How does that but come about in the face of the expectation that you will be honest and faithful to the person you have committed to? What is it that puts a person on the path from faithful to unfaithful?
Recently it was revealed that it may have played a part in the break-up of Olivia Wilde and Jason Sudeikis. It was reported that Wilde was involved with Harry Styles before she and Jason split after spending nine years together and having two children. How does even the best-intentioned person end up actually having or flirting with the idea of an affair?